It's February. There's a lot of pink, red and white heart themed everything every where you turn.

Valentine's Day is around the corner and the thought of it can bring joy or dread to hearts everywhere. If you're in a loving relationship, you might feel more loved than usual. If you've come out of, or are in, a non-loving relationship, it painfully clear how non-loving it was or is.

But what is love? 

I learned what love is and what it isn't inside my marriage. And once I got out of it, I...